Have you ever asked yourself...Where do I end and others begin?
If that question feels unclear, you’re not alone.
In my practice, I work with women every day who’ve spent their lives living out roles shaped by others’ needs, expectations, or unresolved traumas. Maybe you were the ‘peacekeeper’. The caretaker. The one who never rocked the boat. Even called the good one, the easy child.
But here’s the thing: a life of people-pleasing and overextending isn’t sustainable—physically, emotionally, or energetically. And in homeopathy, we understand this deeply.
This is your ability to know who you are—your needs, your desires, your voice—separate from those around you. When that’s compromised, we often see:
- Poor boundaries
- Fear of abandonment or being alone
- Constant need for external validation
- Deep-rooted anxiety or depression
- An identity shaped by someone else's story
Sound familiar?
I’ve worked with women whose life paths were chosen by their fathers…
Women who stepped into motherhood before they were ready, simply because that’s what was modeled…
Women who feel lost in their 60s, not because they’re broken—but because they never had the space to fully become… to have an identity and role outside of keeping up with the duties of the home, family and maintaining perfection.
In our homeopathic journey through the Miasms the past couple months, we’ve learned about Psora and her LACK, Sycosis in her EXCESS + EXTREMES, *Syphilis and utter DESTRUCTION. These are the 3 core Miasms we work from as homeopaths and most of your symptom pictures since childhood fit into these 3 categories. You also typically have all 3 with varying levels of prominence at any given time in your life.
Miasms speak to your GENETIC imprint. Your heritage.
As we move to the final 2 Miasms that most classical homeopaths observe and bring into consideration in their case management, we learn of the Cancer Miasm.
Here’s the core insight:
Cancer isn’t just about physical disease processes.
It’s about a LOSS of INDIVIDUALITY.
Don’t keep each other in check like healthy, functioning cells.
They replicate. Fast. Without differentiation. They take over.
And when we lose ourselves—when we chronically suppress our needs, overextend, or silence OUR beliefs and desires—we begin to reflect this same dis-ease pattern energetically.
Just like in nature—monoculture farming depletes the soil…
Sameness weakens the system.
Health, on the other hand, thrives in diversity, complexity, and differentiation.
Here’s your invitation:
Pause.
Ask yourself honestly:
➤ Do I know what I want?
➤ Do I trust my own center?
➤ Am I living a life of my own design?
Because healing doesn’t start with protocols and supplements.
It starts with reclaiming you. Your voice. Your space. Your rhythm.
It helps bring you back to your core—to that quiet place of knowing, choosing, becoming. If this resonates with you, I invite you to explore care with me at Sweetgrass Homeopathy for a September start date!
✨Let’s reclaim your identity, one remedy at a time.
P.S.
Have a friend who’s navigating this? Forward them this blog.
Healing ripples outward.
♡ ︎Bethany Huss, Licensed Homeopath + RN
